OF LOVE AND MOVING ON - 04-23-2010

“When you love someone your heart beats really fast when you’re around that person and you know that you trust them completely, so much that you could spend the whole day telling them your deepest, darkest secrets knowing that they would still think of you as the same person … that’s love.” — Anonymous

“When I say, “I love you,” it’s not because I want you or because I can’t have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, how you try. I’ve seen your kindness and your strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are.” — Joss Whedon

“Being in a couple is hard. And committing, making sacrifices, it’s hard. But if it’s the right person, then it’s easy. Looking at that girl and knowing she’s all you really want out of life, that should be the easiest thing in the world. And if it’s not like that, then she’s not the one. I’m sorry.” — Marshall Eriksen

“People have scars. In all sorts of unexpected places. Like secret roadmaps of their personal histories. Diagrams of all their old wounds. Most of our wounds heal, leaving nothing behind but a scar. But some of them don’t. Some wounds we carry with us everywhere and though the cut’s long gone, the pain still lingers.” — Grey’s Anatomy

It’s not true that when you’re sad, you’ll just need some time to get through it. Perhaps yes, but in a way too long lifetime, I bet. It’s not true that when you’re heart-broken, you’ll just need someone to occupy that space and focus yourself into some activities you love. I used to believe it, not until I came into this point, the ghastly part of life. I knew they’re all fallacies. Easy to say, difficult to do.

When we’re in despair, we ask people advices.. but, eventually, 9/10 of those advices were not really/totally helpful. Most often, you just know what to do, you just can’t, or you just don’t want to.

You know what hurts me the most at this very moment? It's the fact that no matter how much I miss you, I can't be with you, it's not that because I don't want to, but because I'm too far from where you are.

“it took me seven years to know what love is. it isn’t dreamy, equal nor perfect. it breeds pain from expectations, hurt from lies, tears from arguments. love is simply a process. you learn from it when you grow from it. it defines acceptance, understanding and a dose of craziness all over. so you have to be with someone who’s willing to share all that is in between. so even if it takes me another seven, eight or even more years to fully define love, i will never falter cause i know he’ll always be there to stay … that’s love.” — **coldtruethoughts**