Thursday, December 10, 2009

WHAT IS ROMANCE

Romance is a state of mind. Romance is about the little things..it is more about the small gestures..the little ways of making daily life with your soulmate a bit more special… it is about small meaningful surprises more then the extravagant expensive gestures.

There are really two kinds of romance: Obligatory romance & Optional romance

Obligatory romance includes celebrating her birthday, getting her a gift for Christmas/the holiday sesaon, acknowledging your anniversary and remembering Valentine’s Day

Optional romance is everything else…little surprises ..big surprises, candle lit dinners, champagne and oyster toasts, weekend getaways, sending funny cards, romantic cards..finding new web sites you think she would like…building a new blog site or populating one to surprise her..exercising your creativity..massages..surprise date..just because notes..watching romantic movies..writing love letters and poems and leaving them on pillow..learning to listen with your ears…eyes and heart…listening for the meaning behind the actions…listening for the message behind the words. via erospainter

3 comments:

  1. “To continue to love somebody when there’s no promise of that love ever thriving, that is romance.” — Dawson’s Creek

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  2. Romance is something that tickles your heart. It is the fire that ignites a relationship. If you want a relationship that last, add romance into it...

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  3. “To continue to love somebody when there’s no promise of that love ever thriving, that is romance.” — Dawson’s Creek

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