Monday, June 14, 2010

HOMILY OF LOVE

When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure but when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on; when to let go. You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it.

Everything happens for the best. if the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You’ll never love the person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt you all the time. Though hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow.

Don't find love, let love find you. That’s why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering; growing. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves. On falling out of love, take some time to heal; then get back on the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time.

To love is to risk rejections, to live be to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing. to reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self.

TO LOVE IS TO RISK NOT TO BE LOVED IN RETURN.

How to define LOVE: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share; never be unfair, understand; not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.

Love is like a knife. it can stab the heart or it carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you; give you joy; strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be; where they choose to be. For all the heartaches; the tears, for gloomy days; fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that there were the things that helped you grow.

Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity; that is love.

Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire; tear you apart. Only love can make you cry; only love knows why.

When you decide to love, allow it to grow. When you promise to love, refuse to let it die.

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