Friday, October 29, 2010
In almost all the rom-com or chick-flicks, there comes a time when the guy just holds the hands of the girl and they gazes into each other’s eyes, and your heart goes awww. Remember the feeling when a small baby just curls his hands around you and you suddenly start to feel affectionate. In a love relationship too, holding hands is an intimate gesture, which shows love, care, and affection without you having to say that. If you want to hold hand of someone, you probably want to pursue the relationship further too. Actually when you hold the hands of your ‘someone special’, a feeling of intimacy and being in love comes over you.
Holding hands is a very subtle way of saying you care. And while it might be very easy for some to hold hands of their loved ones, there may be few people who find it hard to come to terms with such an expression of love and intimacy. It also depends upon the kind of person you are. For a vibrant and outgoing person, holding hands in public places is no big deal, but for a shy person, holding hands even in a private place seems to be a difficult task. However if you are in a relationship, it becomes important to show love and affection. Holding hands is the most basic of all the affection.
You can hold hands while you are sitting, standing, or walking next to that person. Make sure to choose a romantic setting. don’t startle them, when he/she is gazing in your eyes, you can get a hold of their hand and squeeze slightly. If the person squeezes back, know for sure that he/she is enjoying your company.